導(dǎo)讀一、生活中出現(xiàn)不順心的事情，不要心懷不滿、怨氣沖天，也不必耿耿于懷、一蹶不振，是福是禍都得面對(duì)，是好是壞都會(huì)過(guò)去。生氣，是拿別人的錯(cuò)誤懲罰自己。Ifsome....

一、生活中出現(xiàn)不順心的事情，不要心懷不滿、怨氣沖天，也不必耿耿于懷、一蹶不振，是福是禍都得面對(duì)，是好是壞都會(huì)過(guò)去。生氣，是拿別人的錯(cuò)誤懲罰自己。

If something goes wrong in life, dont be dissatisfied or resentful, and dont be upset or depressed. We have to face both good and bad, and the good and the bad will pass away. To be angry is to punish oneself for the mistakes of others.

二、人生往往是這樣，你以為的希望，其實(shí)是讓你陷得更深的絕望；而你認(rèn)為無(wú)盡的絕望，在一拐角卻滿眼希望。

Life is often like this, you think hope, in fact, let you fall deeper into despair; and you think endless despair, but in a corner full of hope.

三、選擇任何一種生活方式，都有得有失。所以，不用羨慕什么，也不用抱怨什么。你所能做的，只是保持身體和內(nèi)心的平衡。

There are gains and losses in choosing any way of life. So dont envy or complain. All you can do is keep your body and mind in balance.

四、不滿意就換，不喜歡就分，不舒服就走，不高興就撤。人生哪有那么多痛苦，無(wú)非是你不放過(guò)自己。

If you dont like it, you can change it. If you dont like it, you can leave if you feel uncomfortable. If you dont like it, you can withdraw. Where there are so many pains in life, its just that you dont let go of yourself.

五、人生最重要的不是已經(jīng)失去的，也不是尚未得到的，而是此刻擁有的。過(guò)去無(wú)法挽回，明天還是未知，只有當(dāng)下是實(shí)實(shí)在在的。

The most important thing in life is not what has been lost, nor what has not been gained, but what we have now. The past can not be retrieved, tomorrow is still unknown, only the present is real.

六、放得下就不孤獨(dú)，站得遠(yuǎn)些就清楚，不幻想就沒(méi)感觸，不期待也就不會(huì)有在乎。世上無(wú)難事，庸人自擾之。

If you can let go, you will not be lonely. If you stand far, you will know. If you do not fantasize, you will not feel. If you do not expect, you will not care. Nothing is difficult in the world, and no one is bothered by it.

七、我們之所以活得累，是因?yàn)椋悍挪幌录茏?，撕不開(kāi)面子，解不開(kāi)心結(jié)。其實(shí)，想開(kāi)了，世界上的一切問(wèn)題，都能用“關(guān)你屁事”和“關(guān)我屁事”來(lái)回答。

The reason why we are tired is that we can not put down shelves, tear face and unhappy knots. In fact, if you think about it, all the questions in the world can be answered with “its your shit” and “its my shit”.

八、看清了很多人，卻不能隨意拆穿；討厭著很多人，卻又不能輕易翻臉。有時(shí)候，生活就是要逼自己變得逆來(lái)順受，寵辱不驚。

See a lot of people, but can not be easily dismantled; hate a lot of people, but can not easily turn their faces. Sometimes, life is to force oneself to become resigned, spoiled and humiliated.

九、茶不過(guò)兩種姿態(tài)：浮、沉；飲茶人不過(guò)兩種姿勢(shì)：拿起、放下。人生如茶，沉?xí)r坦然，浮時(shí)淡然，拿得起放得下。

Tea has only two postures: floating and sinking; tea drinkers have only two postures: picking up and putting down. Life is like tea, calm when sinking, indifferent when floating, affordable to put down.

十、人生在世，無(wú)法預(yù)知未來(lái)。幸與不幸，總須堅(jiān)持到最后才能知道。所以，人生的好壞都取決于心態(tài)。你的心態(tài)好，壞事變好事；你的心態(tài)不好，好事也變成壞事。

Life is alive and there is no way to predict the future. Fortunately or unhappily, we must persevere until the end. Therefore, the quality of life depends on mentality. If you have a good mind, bad things will turn into good things; if you have a bad mind, good things will turn into bad things.

十一、被人理解是幸運(yùn)的，但不被理解未必不幸。一個(gè)把自己的價(jià)值完全寄托于他人的理解上面的人往往并無(wú)價(jià)值。

Its lucky to be understood, but its not necessarily unfortunate not to be understood. A person who places his value entirely on the understanding of others often has no value.

十二、有些東西，你可以計(jì)較，但別過(guò)甚，多了會(huì)磨損心性；有些痛苦，你可以沉浸，但別太久，長(zhǎng)了會(huì)消減斗志，迷失你的方向。

Some things, you can care about, but not too much, more will wear the heart; some pain, you can immerse, but not too long, long will reduce the fighting spirit, lost your direction.

十三、人面對(duì)生活中的不如意，與其選擇抱怨，不如選擇釋?xiě)?。生活中難免會(huì)有不如意，如果只會(huì)在抱怨里掙扎，人生注定是苦海無(wú)涯。

Faced with lifes unsatisfactory, people choose to let go rather than complain. Life will inevitably be unsatisfactory, if only struggle in complaints, life is doomed to endless suffering.

十四、人生沒(méi)有那么多的假設(shè)，現(xiàn)實(shí)是一個(gè)一個(gè)真實(shí)的耳光，打在你的臉上，喊疼毫無(wú)疑義，唯有一往無(wú)前。

There are not so many hypotheses in life. The reality is a real slap in the face. There is no doubt that it is painful to shout, but to go forward.

十五、既然無(wú)處可逃，不如喜悅。既然沒(méi)有凈土，不如靜心。既然沒(méi)有如愿，不如釋然。

Since there is nowhere to escape, its better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since there is no such thing as wishes, it is better to let go.

十六、與其埋怨世界，不如改變自己。管好自己的心，做好自己的事，比什么都強(qiáng)。人生無(wú)完美，曲折亦風(fēng)景。

Instead of complaining about the world, change yourself. Its better to take care of your heart and do your own thing than anything else. Life is not perfect, twists and turns are scenery.

十七、人生的旅途中，你總有那么一段時(shí)間，需要自己走，需要自己扛，不要感覺(jué)害怕，不要感覺(jué)孤單，這只不過(guò)是成長(zhǎng)支付的代價(jià)。

In the journey of life, you always have a period of time, you need to walk, you need to carry, you dont feel afraid, you dont feel lonely, its just the cost of growth.

十八、人生是很累的，你現(xiàn)在不累，以后就會(huì)更累。人生是很苦的，你現(xiàn)在不苦，以后就會(huì)更苦。唯累過(guò)，方得閑。唯苦過(guò)，方知甜。

Life is very tired. If you are not tired now, you will be more tired later. Life is very bitter. If you dont suffer now, you will suffer more later. Only when you are tired can you have leisure. Only through bitterness can we know sweetness.

十九、人之所迷，因在局內(nèi)，人之所悟，因在局外。人生充滿變數(shù)，定力如何，直接影響到人生的走向。淡定看人生，寧?kù)o看自己。

Man is fascinated because he is in the situation, but what he understands is out of the situation. Life is full of variables. How determined we are will have a direct impact on the direction of life. Calm look at life, quiet look at themselves.

二十、一個(gè)人不可能改變世界，世界也不會(huì)因你而改變，所能做的，就是適應(yīng)世界，不鉆牛角尖，不要和別人攀比。你的生活，應(yīng)該有你自己的精彩。

One cannot change the world, and the world will not change because of you. All one can do is to adapt to the world, not to compete with others. Your life, should have your own wonderful.